For men afraid of failing when it matters most....

How To Crush Performance Anxiety

Learn the secrets to crushing performance anxiety from an adult entertainment superstar with 23 years of experience in front of the camera....

with ZERO failures, ZERO drugs, and ZERO awkward moments.

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For men afraid of failing when it matters most....

How To Crush Performance Anxiety

Learn the secrets to crushing performance anxiety from an adult entertainment superstar with 23 years of experience in front of the camera....

with ZERO failures, ZERO drugs, and ZERO awkward moments.

It’s not that you can’t get hard, it’s that you think it's hard to get hard
(and no one taught you “how”).

Here's the problem: 

You think there are 2 kinds of men in the world,

Men who can get and sustain erections .....

....

...

..

And you.

So you're walking around thinking there's something wrong with you because you....

  • Fail to get an erection (or lose your erection) when it matters.
  • Struggle to keep it going in the heat of the moment.
  • Avoid initiating (or even thinking about) sex, for fear of not getting it up.
     

And you're left feeling like you're not a "real" man

And there's no hope if you're in the category of men who struggle with performance anxiety...

But what people don’t understand is that in “real” life, there is a real, natural, solution to this problem.... and you can learn it.

It’s not that you can’t get hard, it’s that you think it's hard to get hard
(and no one taught you “how”).

Here's the problem: 

You think there are 2 kinds of men in the world;

Men who can get and sustain erections .....

.

.

.

And you.

So you're walking around thinking there's something wrong with you because you....

  • Fail to get an erection (or lose your erection) when it matters.
  • Struggle to keep it going in the heat of the moment.
  • Avoid initiating (or even thinking about) sex, for fear of not getting it up.
     

And you're left feeling like you're not a "real" man

And there's no hope if you're in the category of men who struggle with performance anxiety...

But what people don’t understand is that in “real” life, there is a real, natural, solution to this problem.... and you can learn it.

The truth about "ED"

and how you can address it....

The truth about "ED"

and how you can address it....

In 40 % of erectile dysfunction cases they are psychogenic...

Meaning it’s all in your mind.

If your penis works when a woman is not around - it can work when SHE IS.

For over 23 years in adult entertainment, I have never - not once - failed to produce an erection on set. Ever. (and always without the help of any performance enhancing drugs.)

If I could produce erections on demand 100% of the time, in the most extreme and demanding of situations… you can learn to crush your performance anxiety using the same techniques.

Guaranteed.

In 40 % of erectile dysfunction cases they are psychogenic...

Meaning it’s all in your mind.

If your penis works when a woman is not around - it can work when SHE IS.

For over 23 years in adult entertainment, I have never - not once - failed to produce an erection on set. Ever. (and always without the help of any performance enhancing drugs.)

If I could produce erections on demand 100% of the time, in the most extreme and demanding of situations… you can learn to crush your performance anxiety using the same techniques.

Guaranteed.

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Hi, I'm Erik Everhard.

Author. Men's Coach.

23 - Year Adult Entertainment Veteran.

Hi, I'm Erik Everhard.

Author. Men's Coach.

23 - Year Adult Entertainment Veteran.

Early 2000, I was asked a question that forever altered my life

“That was incredible! What were you thinking while you were doing that?”

I was on set working on a big feature film and the late, great, Larry Sultan was compiling images for what would become his famous art photo book titled “The Valley”.

I was working with this beautiful brunette that day, and I tore into her with my passion and energetic style that would become my hallmark throughout my career. When it was all done, and I exited the room in a sweaty disheveled daze, Larry asked the question that changed it all....

"What were you thinking while you were doing that?”  

It struck me as so odd I was a little taken aback, - and my answer shocked him.

 

Early 2000, I was asked a question that forever altered my life

“That was incredible! What were you thinking while you were doing that?”

I was on set working on a big feature film and the late, great, Larry Sultan was compiling images for what would become his famous art photo book titled “The Valley”.

I was working with this beautiful brunette that day, and I tore into her with my passion and energetic style that would become my hallmark throughout my career. When it was all done, and I exited the room in a sweaty disheveled daze, Larry asked the question that changed it all....

"What were you thinking while you were doing that?”  

It struck me as so odd I was a little taken aback, - and my answer shocked him.

 

“Nothing”, I answered… “I wasn’t thinking about anything.”

I was so focused on what I was doing, and being in the moment, that all that was in my head was “white noise”. There were no thoughts…just static.

Cutting off the signal to my thoughts became my superpower.

It doesn’t matter who you are, or where you came from, all of us have the ability inside of us to cut the signal to our thoughts and actually enjoy the here and now of the sexual moment - the key to crushing performance anxiety

Today, I'm regarded by some of the most educated experts in the field of sex and sexuality as the go-to men's coach for men struggling in the bedroom.

I bring real-world, "street smarts", and over 5,000 case studies to what most only learn from a book.

 

“Nothing”, I answered… “I wasn’t thinking about anything.”

I was so focused on what I was doing, and being in the moment, that all that was in my head was “white noise”. There were no thoughts…just static.

Cutting off the signal to my thoughts became my superpower.

It doesn’t matter who you are, or where you came from, all of us have the ability inside of us to cut the signal to our thoughts and actually enjoy the here and now of the sexual moment - the key to crushing performance anxiety

Today, I'm regarded by some of the most educated experts in the field of sex and sexuality as the go-to men's coach for men struggling in the bedroom.

I bring real-world, "street smarts", and over 5,000 case studies to what most only learn from a book.

 

For the first time ever I'm sharing my secrets to crushing performance anxiety with the men who need it most .....

For the first time ever I'm sharing my secrets to crushing performance anxiety with the men who need it most .....

How To Crush Performance Anxiety In 3 Weeks Or Less!

How To Crush Performance Anxiety In 3 Weeks Or Less!

The revolutionary course for men that want to get hard

 ....Without it being hard.

The revolutionary course for men that want to get hard

 ....Without it being hard.

  • SECURE PAYMENT GUARANTEED

Crushing Performance Anxiety is the only comprehensive educational course with tools and resources backed by years of real experience, that helps men go from failing in the bedroom to getting hard with ease - every time.

  • SECURE PAYMENT GUARANTEED

Crushing Performance Anxiety is the only comprehensive educational course with tools and resources backed by years of real experience, that helps men go from failing in the bedroom to getting hard with ease - every time.

Through this course, you will...

 

  • Take control of your penis and your sex life, so you never have to pray to the "erection gods" that today is the day you get an erection.
  • Confidently create new belief systems about who the REAL you is in the bedroom, so you can stop the voice in your head that says, "you aren't good enough".
  • Overcome sexual shame around being naked, so you never have to worry about getting naked in front of your girl again.
  • Let go of performance anxiety with simple, proven, tools, so you can relax knowing that she's taken care of.
  • Lower anxiety with my secret technique that has never failed me once - in over 5,000 case studies

Through this course, you will...

 

  • Take control of your penis and your sex life, so you never have to pray to the "erection gods" that today is the day you get an erection.
  • Confidently create new belief systems about who the REAL you is in the bedroom, so you can stop the voice in your head that says, "you aren't good enough".
  • Overcome sexual shame around being naked, so you never have to worry about getting naked in front of your girl again.
  • Let go of performance anxiety with simple, proven, tools, so you can relax knowing that she's taken care of.
  • Lower anxiety with my secret technique that has never failed me once - in over 5,000 case studies

How You'll Learn To

Crush Performance Anxiety

Crushing Performance Anxiety is broken down into 8 easy to digest modules.

Each module comes with pre-recorded video content, a companion PDF workbook, and action steps to cement your new knowledge

Module 1: Understanding Performance Anxiety.

You're not "broken" if you're struggling with Performance Anxiety. Because 95% of it is your mind, changing your thoughts around what Performance Anxiety is and how your body responds to it can get you most of the way to a solution.

Module 1 will help you:

  • Understand what biological processes occur with anxiety and what meanings we are making of events that cause this phenomenon.
  • Differentiate the two different ways that we can approach dealing with this “threat”.

At the end of Module 1 you’ll have a basic understanding of what is happening in your body and you’ll have two tools to help deal with your anxiety.

Module 2: Setting Up For Success

Most of the Performance Anxiety battle happens BEFORE you ever encounter a trigger. Learning how to set up for success is crucial for avoiding performance anxiety failure.

In this module you'll:

  • Learn the various modalities that can be employed to help alter your perception or subconscious meaning of a negative stimuli BEFORE you actually encounter it. 

At the end of Module 2 you’ll know an array of modalities that you can use before you ever confront performance anxiety in the moment.

BONUS: Neuro-Linguistic Programming technique designed to help you decrease anxiety subconsciously.

Module 3: Get Naked.

For most men, Performance Anxiety begins at just getting naked in front of others. There are safe ways to overcome this fear so you're not stacking fear and anxiety when it matters most.

In this module you'll learn:

  • How you can work on your sexual shame around body image.
  • The secret to dipping your toe in the nudity waters and working up confidence a little at a time.

At the end of Module 3 you’ll have new tools to overcome your fear of being naked and body shame.

Module 4: Your Default State

Truth is, if your penis works when women are NOT around, it's going to work when they ARE. Defining your "Default State" is the first key in redefining your "normal".

In this module, you'll:

  • Determine what your default state in the bedroom is and understand this is the true version of you.
  • Take the objective reality of your penis and it’s core default truth and label it.

At the end of this module you should be able to rate and rank how well your penis works in a controlled environment and you should have a fundamental shift in your beliefs around your penis.

Module 5: Hard-On How-To

Not all hard-ons are created equally. And 90% of the time, men who are struggling with Performance Anxiety are relying on the wrong kind of hard-on... until now.

In this module you'll:

  • Learn the 2 distinct types of hard-ons and learn to recognize the more reliable and controllable one.
  • Gain the power to control and create reliable and repeatable hard-ons.

At the end of this module you will learn how to put 100% focused attention on your penis, what that level of attention should look like, and why focusing purely on the physical sensations will benefit you.

Module 6: Orgasms R Us

When the expectation to perform is so high, men fail before they ever even begin. But, when you learn this simple skill to pleasure her right from the start, you lower the stress of performance and guarantee better - and more fun - results all around.

In this module, you'll:

  • Understand the importance of getting a woman off before anything else happens, this allows for the burden of performance to be lifted.
  • Learn the secret way to overcoming the surge of adrenaline that is creating the chaos that prevents you from performing at your peak.

At the end of this module you'll understand the one skill you need to develop, the secrets of doing it right - every time - and the psychological impact of having the albatross of performance lifted from you.

Module 7: White Noise

Most men who struggle to perform will be overcome with mental chaos that makes Performance Anxiety 10X worse. Overcoming the noise in your mind is essential for staying present and succeeding when you're trying to get and maintain an erection.

In this module, you'll:

  • Know and understand how to find and stay in "white noise" mentally, so you can block out negative self-talk that kills hard-ons faster than thoughts of your Granny.
  • Learn how to stay present in the moment with 100% focused attention so that you can feel exactly what is working and do more of it.

At the end of this module you’ll understand how the use of conscious, focused attention can create a space of “white noise” in your head and prevent the thoughts that don’t serve you from entering.

Module 8: The “Hint of Blood” Phenomenon

The "hint of blood" phenomenon is my proprietary technique for creating erections and holding them... no. matter. what.

This is the ONLY time I've shared this technique.

In this module, you'll:

  • Build a positive loop of reinforcement through attaining 30% blood flow and discover the psychological release that this gives you.
  • Learn to utilize distraction while you master skilled masturbation to fulfill the Hint of Blood technique.

At the end of this module you will have all the tools to obtain an erection without needing or requiring any assistance from the girl. And you will come to trust your abilities by creating a positive psychological environment through obtaining a hint of blood.

How You'll Learn To

Crush Performance Anxiety

Crushing Performance Anxiety is broken down into 8 easy to digest modules.

Each module comes with pre-recorded video content, a companion PDF workbook, and action steps to cement your new knowledge

Module 1: What Is Anxiety?

  • Understand what biological processes occur with anxiety and what meanings we are making of events that cause this phenomenon.
  • Differentiate the two different ways that we can approach dealing with this “threat”.

At the end of Module 1 you’ll have a basic understanding of what is happening in your body and you’ll have two tools to help deal with your anxiety.

Module 2: Change The Mental Perception Before

  • Learn the various modalities that can be employed to help alter your perception or subconscious meaning of a negative stimuli BEFORE you actually encounter it. 

At the end of Module 2 you’ll know an array of modalities that you can use as well as an NLP technique that you can try out to help lessen anxiety.

Module 3: Incremental Exposure To Threats

In this module you’ll learn how you can work on your sexual shame around body image which is often one of the main sources of anxiety. 

At the end of Module 3 you’ll have a multitude of places where you can go and practice being naked around complete strangers.

Module 4: What To Overcome The Anxiety

  • Determine what your default state in the bedroom is and understand this is the true version of you.
  • Take the objective reality of your penis and it’s core default truth and label it.

At the end of this module you should be able to rate and rank how well your penis works in a controlled environment and you should have a fundamental shift in your beliefs around your penis.your text in this area

Module 5: How you can leverage the two types of hard-ons to guarantee success.

  • Realize that you have two distinct types of hard-ons and that one of them is more reliable and controllable than the other.
  • Know that the power to control the physically created hard-on rests with you and this is not only reliable but also repeatable. 

At the end of this module you will learn how to put 100% focused attention on your penis, what that level of attention should look like, and why focusing purely on the physical sensations will benefit you.

Module 6: Get her off and lower her expectations.

  • Understand the importance of getting a woman off before anything else happens, this allows for the burden of performance to be lifted.
  • Learn the secret way to overcoming the surge of adrenaline that is creating the chaos that prevents you from performing at your peak.

At the end of this module you should understand why pussy eating needs to be a skill that you develop and the psychological impact of having the albatross of performance lifted from you.

Module 7: Empty your mind by “doing”.

  • Know and understand why “doing” is the space that you want to inhabit in the sexual sphere, and why this is beneficial for mind.
  • Learn how to stay present in the moment with 100% focused attention so that you can feel exactly what is working and prevent anxiety by creating a space of “no mind”.

At the end of this module you’ll understand how the use of conscious, focused attention can create a space of “white noise” in your head and prevent the thoughts that don’t serve you from entering.

Module 8: The “Hint of Blood” Phenomenon

  • Build a positive loop of reinforcement through attaining 30% blood flow and discover the psychological release that this gives you.
  • Learn to utilize distraction as a sleight of hand while you mobilize skilled jerking off to fulfill the hint of blood you require.

At the end of this module you will have all the tools to obtain an erection without needing or requiring any assistance from the girl. And you will come to trust your abilities by creating a positive psychological environment through obtaining a hint of blood.

PLUS, I’m throwing in 4 of my favorite tools and most requested pieces, including:

 COCK CONFIDENCE:

  • After repeatedly listening to this hypnotic meditation you will feel a renewed confidence in your abilities and fundamentally alter your belief in yourself and your penis in this expertly crafted hypnotherapy audio

ANXIETY ANNIHILATOR:

  • An NLP visualization technique designed to help you combat fear. By stepping in and out of your fearful DESIRED state we lower the fear and anxiety about ACHIEVING that goal.

AUDIO ON THE GO:

  • A full length audio recording of the course, so that you can listen to the trainings on the go, at your own pace.

KNOW THYSELF:

  • A workbook with thought provoking exercises and questions so you can peel back the layers of what's stopping you from achieving your peak sexual abilities.

PLUS, I’m throwing in 4 of my favorite tools and most requested pieces, including:

 COCK CONFIDENCE:

  • After repeatedly listening to this hypnotic meditation you will feel a renewed confidence in your abilities and fundamentally alter your belief in yourself and your penis in this expertly crafted hypnotherapy audio

ANXIETY ANNIHILATOR:

  • An NLP visualization technique designed to help you combat fear. By stepping in and out of your fearful DESIRED state we lower the fear and anxiety about ACHIEVING that goal.

AUDIO ON THE GO:

  • A full length audio recording of the course, so that you can listen to the trainings on the go, at your own pace.

KNOW THYSELF:

  • A workbook with thought provoking exercises and questions so you can peel back the layers of what's stopping you from achieving your peak sexual abilities.

Crush Your Anxiety Like These Guys...

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"I cannot overstate how much Mitch’s (Erik’s) program empowered me to take control of my life and inspired confidence, both in and out of the bedroom."

It was the first time I truly felt in control of my performance and stamina in between the sheets! There was a monumental shift in perspective; almost like this course was exactly the jumpstart I needed to take control of my fear. I left the course with a newfound sense of hope and wellbeing, like I finally had the tools to build up a new part of my sexual repertoire, or even having a sexual repertoire worth being proud of in the first place! It was like I finally saw the light! I cannot overstate how much Mitch’s (Erik’s) program empowered me to take control of my life and inspired confidence, both in and out of the bedroom.

RAY W.

"

"Every course or piece of information that I have gotten from Erik Everhard has helped me become the man that I need to be in bed."

The biggest takeaway that I had from the crushing anxiety course was that I should stop focusing so much on giving the girl a great experience, and focus more on what turns me on. This way the girl can tell that I am having a great time and it gives her the validation she needs to let herself go. Nowadays my confidence in the bedroom is definitely much higher. Every course or piece of information that I have gotten from Erik Everhard has helped me become the man that I need to be in bed.

FABIAN K.

Crush Your Anxiety Like These Guys...

"

"I cannot overstate how much Mitch’s (Erik’s) program empowered me to take control of my life and inspired confidence, both in and out of the bedroom."

RAY W.

"

"Every course or piece of information that I have gotten from Erik Everhard has helped me become the man that I need to be in bed."\

FABIAN K.

Just Imagine If You Were....

Fearless initiating sex, knowing you can deliver the goods on command, every time.

Confident that you could please your woman, so you're never left worrying about what she's thinking again.

Ready to perform whenever she needed it or wanted it, no matter when or where - or how.

Secure in your relationship, knowing she's 100% sexually satisfied, so that you knew you were the best lover she's ever had.

Able to enjoy sex again and not stuck in your head the entire time, without fearing that you might lose your erection.

Just Imagine If You Were....

Fearless initiating sex, knowing you can deliver the goods on command, every time.

Confident that you could please your woman, so you're never left worrying about what she's thinking again.

Ready to perform whenever she needed it or wanted it, no matter when or where - or how.

Secure in your relationship, knowing she's 100% sexually satisfied, so that you knew you were the best lover she's ever had.

Able to enjoy sex again and not stuck in your head the entire time, without fearing that you might lose your erection.

Are You Ready To Crush Your Anxiety?

Now is the time to STEP UP and own your sexual desires. 


What has been the cost to your enjoyment of sex and in life, by sitting on the sidelines and not dealing with your problem head on?

 
How many relationships, how many sexual moments, how many orgasms are you going to let pass you by? 

 
How many women are you going to have to make excuses for? 

 
Do you think your ability to get hard is going to magically improve unless you decide, IN THIS MOMENT, that you deserve better and are ready to take action? 

 
Join me right now for the opportunity to rewrite the story of your sexual life, give you the ability to drive women wild, and learn special skills from one of the elite porn stars of all time.

Are You Ready To Crush Your Anxiety?

Now is the time to STEP UP and own your sexual desires. 


What has been the cost to your enjoyment of sex and in life, by sitting on the sidelines and not dealing with your problem head on?

 
How many relationships, how many sexual moments, how many orgasms are you going to let pass you by? 

 
How many women are you going to have to make excuses for? 

 
Do you think your ability to get hard is going to magically improve unless you decide, IN THIS MOMENT, that you deserve better and are ready to take action? 

 
Join me right now for the opportunity to rewrite the story of your sexual life, give you the ability to drive women wild, and learn special skills from one of the elite porn stars of all time.

Have Questions? We Have Answers.

Who's this course for?

This course is designed for any man that likes a lot of sex, wants to be on point to deliver his “A” game, and wants some real “expert” solutions.

Are the videos pre-recorded? Or is the course taught live?

The course consists of pre-recorded videos, but with that HD quality that will make you think i’m in your living room. These are supplemented with a live accountability coaching session for those that purchase that bonus.

 

How do I know this stuff works?

Well the proof is in the pudding. All you need to do is a quick google search to see that I put my money where my mouth is. These techniques are the exact ones that I've used for the last 23 years to get hard in ANY situation. They are practical, realistic, and above all THEY WORK. They made me one of the top porn stars in the world.

What’s found inside the course?

The course consists of 8 video modules with yours truly. Also included is the Know Thyself pdf workbook, pure audio tracks for on the go, and NLP exercise and a Hypnotherapy session.

How long do I have access to the materials?

You have access to the materials for life! Or at least as long as I’m alive! You will always be able access all of the materials by just logging into the website with your password and username.

What have you accomplished using these techniques? 

The greatest thing I ever accomplished was having sex in the town square of Budapest at high noon with tourists watching....and the police watching across the street. Anything is possible.

Have Questions? We Have Answers.

Who's this course for?

This course is designed for any man that likes a lot of sex, wants to be on point to deliver his “A” game, and wants some real “expert” solutions.

Are the videos pre-recorded? Or is the course taught live?

The course consists of pre-recorded videos, but with that HD quality that will make you think i’m in your living room. These are supplemented with a live accountability coaching session for those that purchase that bonus.

 

How do I know this stuff works?

Well the proof is in the pudding. All you need to do is a quick google search to see that I put my money where my mouth is. These techniques are the exact ones that I've used for the last 23 years to get hard in ANY situation. They are practical, realistic, and above all THEY WORK. They made me one of the top porn stars in the world.

What’s found inside the course?

The course consists of 8 video modules with yours truly. Also included is the Know Thyself pdf workbook, pure audio tracks for on the go, and NLP exercise and a Hypnotherapy session.

How long do I have access to the materials?

You have access to the materials for life! Or at least as long as I’m alive! You will always be able access all of the materials by just logging into the website with your password and username.

What have you accomplished using these techniques? 

The greatest thing I ever accomplished was having sex in the town square of Budapest at high noon with tourists watching....and the police watching across the street. Anything is possible.

About the Coach

Erik Everhard is an author, coach, and professional pornstar. He teaches entrepreneurs and executives elite level sexual skills so that they can master the bedroom like they dominate the boardroom.